decluttering help

The woman who is helping us declutter worked for four hours on Monday and seemed to work well with John. I had a more difficult time--I felt judged by her. Some of that is me being defensive. But the important thing is whether she can get John to work through his stuff. She will come twice while I am out of town.

I'm feeling overloaded with working on this house and a meeting with contractors coming up tomorrow about the other house. And issues at work and going out of town to a conference.